What to Wear as Mother of the Bride or Groom: A Dress Guide

The mother of the bride or groom has an important job on the day: look elegant, feel comfortable and complement the wedding without upstaging anyone. This guide covers colour, length, sleeves and fit, with designer dresses from Lexi, Winona, Nicholas, Nicola Finetti and more, all below RRP and shipped free by express post Australia-wide.

Talk to the couple first

Ask the bride and groom about the colour palette and the dress code, and check what the other mother is wearing so you do not clash. A quick message early saves stress later.

Colour

Avoid white, ivory and cream: these belong to the bride.
Soft, classic colours: dusty blue, sage, champagne and blush are popular and flattering.
Deeper tones: navy, emerald and burgundy suit formal and winter weddings.
Be careful with very bright or very pale shades: choose a colour that works in photographs next to the wedding party.

Length and style

A midi or floor length dress suits most weddings. Choose a silhouette that you can sit in, walk in and dance in, with a neckline you will not need to adjust. Browse our formal dresses and cocktail dresses.

Sleeves, jackets and wraps

Sleeves, a matching jacket or a wrap give you options for the ceremony and the cooler evening. Many ceremony venues and places of worship suit covered shoulders.

Comfort for a long day

You will be on your feet for photographs, greeting guests and the reception. Choose supportive shoes, and pack a pair of flats. A dress with a little stretch or a forgiving cut helps from the first photo to the last dance.

Buy a dress you can wear again

A designer dress is yours to keep, so you can wear it to the next wedding, a race day or a formal dinner. New with tags and pre-loved dresses are both well below RRP, and every dress is authentic. For more on choosing, read our wedding guest dress guide.